I am one of a kind.

 

Perfectly  Imperfect  :  Finding Joy  in  Life's  Messiness 

                             
                               "You don't inspire others by being perfect.
                    You inspire them by how you deal with your imperfections."

 
Have you ever imagined how life would have been if everything was just so perfect ???  If there were no ups and downs ?? If there was no struggle & you can get whatever you want without fighting for it ?? If you didn't had to leave your own family & place behind to achieve something ?? What if everyone would have been the same on the face & your back both ?? If there were no backstabbers ?? If no one was pulling you down when you are trying to reach heights ?? If no one is bullying you when are trying new things ?? If you had the power to press a restart button of your life ??


Ever Heard these lines ...
Give me some sunshine, Give me some rain .,
Give me another chance I wanna grow up once again .. 

Feels very much like this .. Right !!

But you know what, Its the imperfections of life that is the reason your happiness because if there would have been no problems why would we even dream ? Why would we run behind those dreams to make our lives better ? And when we chase our own dreams, we achieve our goals or may it be even a smallest win, It makes us feel good because we are able to change somethings in our & our loved ones lives may it be the smallest change that we bring. And that is the very basic motto actually, because each one of us in this busy lifestyle is running for a better lifestyle for us & for our precious ones.
Studying, Working, earning, spending, saving, investing .. all these actually cures to that one and only goal - A BETTER LIFESTYLE

So sometimes when it feels like Things are falling apart, they are actually falling into places. And hands down we need to understand that these are the imperfect moments that will at the end give us a perfect life.

Because if you have never felt hungry, you'll never understand the value of food
If you have never lived without family, you'll never understand their love & care
If you have never stopped urself from buying something because of lack of money, then you'll never understand the value of one's hard earned money
If you have never been backstabbed then, you'll never understand how precious it is to have loyal people around you
If you have never been through insulted phase, you'll never understand why their self esteem & being respected is one of the most important things for people
If you've never been pulled down, you won't know, how to be on  the top feels like
And if you've not felt the pain of breaking a dream into pieces in front of your eyes, you'll never understand the value of a dream & the hard work behind it to achieve it.
If you have not been lost through the darkness of night, the rising day will never be able to show you the path.
Hence to feel & understand how it's like to be the best, you must know what's the worst feels like.

So its high time for us to understand and accept the fact that in this big whole journey called life, we can niether always will be able standing on the edges nor we can always be inside the water .. we will have to be both sometimes the viewer of the match & sometimes the player also. And as Villain is the one because of which the Hero gets his importance & popularity similarly, our ups & downs are to make us feel life and at the same time learn from the same.

            From Flaws to Strengths: Embracing Your Authentic Self

So at last but not the least stop bothering about restarting your life & start focusing on

what can be done in this present moment, how beautiful can you make it from now onwards, what best memories can you create & what possible things can be done to

make life beautiful with it's imperfections rather than trying making it perfect.

                    SO STOP BOTHERING & START ACTING

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Feel free to share your thoughts.
Hence, will really appreciate if anyone wants to come up & share their own stories, thoughts or any personal experiences because we do understand there will be many who will give advices, yet no one to listen to you.
But we would love to hear from you & your thoughts. We will try to bring out the essence of your thoughts & bring it out in our next post.

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